A guide for couples: How to find the right photographer.

Your wedding – it’s your day, one of the most beautiful and exciting moments of life. And that’s why choosing the right photographer should be carefully considered. I’d like to share some tips on what to look out for to ensure you end up with pictures that will bring you joy for a lifetime.

1. Find the right style – and ask yourself if it fits you

There are endless styles in wedding photography: classic, modern, documentary, playful, dramatic… The question is: What suits you? Do you want elegant, staged pictures or rather casual, spontaneous moments?

My style is quite documentary but always with an eye for perfect composition. It’s about capturing real moments without forcing unnatural situations or poses. But of course, this is a matter of taste – that’s why you should closely look at the photographer’s work and see if it appeals to you.

2. Sympathy is (almost) everything

No matter how great the photographer’s images are – if you don’t feel comfortable with them, it will show in the photos. Remember: On your wedding day, the photographer will accompany you everywhere. They will be there for very intimate moments, like the Getting Ready or the ceremony.

It’s important that the chemistry is right. A personal meeting is essential for this. Get to know each other, chat a bit, and see if you can imagine spending the whole day with this person. And don’t be afraid to turn down a photographer after the meeting.

3. Photo or video – or both?

This is one of the big questions many couples ask. Personally, I am a big fan of photos for one simple reason: They are tangible. You can flip through them in an album, keep them in a box, or hang them as wall art. Photos don’t need a screen, battery, or technology to have an impact.

Videos are of course incredibly immersive because they throw you right back into the moment – the sound of your laughter, the music, your voices. But if you want both from one photographer, there are often compromises. As a hybrid shooter, photos always come first for me. I secure the perfect shot of the ring exchange before I film a video.

If you truly want both in full quality, you should consider hiring two professionals – one for photos and one for video. It’s more expensive, but that way you get both in their best form.

4. Discuss your wishes in detail

This may seem obvious, but it’s so important: Talk to your photographer in advance about what you want. Are there certain moments you want captured? Is there a particular spot that’s especially important to you?

I always take a lot of time for these conversations because I want you to be happy with the results. It also helps if you have a rough idea of how many pictures you’d like and whether you want an album or specific prints.

5. Involve your photographer in the planning

A wedding has many moving parts: ceremony, reception, speeches, first dance… The more your photographer knows about the schedule, the better they can plan and prepare for the important moments.

If there are sudden surprises, it can be stressful – not only for the photographer but for you as well. So, give them insight into your timeline and share with them your plans.

6. An engagement shoot beforehand?

An engagement shoot is a great way to get familiar with your photographer. You can see how they work and get used to being in front of the camera. Plus, you’ll have beautiful photos that you can use for things like invitations.

7. Couple photos on the wedding day – yes or no?

Couple photos on the wedding day are often a highlight, but they need to be well-planned. Think about when you’d like these pictures taken. Before the ceremony, during the reception, or perhaps right before sunset for those special “Golden Hour” shots?

I always recommend planning at least 30 minutes for this – preferably a little longer if possible. This way, you have enough time to relax and focus on each other without feeling rushed. However, a long photo shoot can risk taking away from the energy of your celebration while you’re away.

My conclusion: Make it your day

At the end of the day, wedding photos are about capturing you and your love. There is no “right” or “wrong” way to do it – just what works for you. Take your time finding the right photographer, plan well, and have fun on this special day.

If you’d like to learn more about me and my approach to wedding photography, feel free to get in touch. I’m excited to hear your story and work with you! 😊